Love Stuck

Allow Woman to Set Pace of Sex First Few Times

I just went for a walk with Justin - a single male in his early 30's. I asked him about his porn consumption. He watches every couple of days or essentially when he gets horny.

I then asked him about coming in the face. He seemed a little shocked at that idea.

I asked him about doggy style the first time you have sex. He said it depends on the sex - is it rough or not. Generally he allows her to lead the first few times he has sex with her. Then he likes to take more control. I like this idea and I agree with it.

I think it is important to allow the female to set the boundaries at first. Then one you feel you have reached a certain level, I would love the man to take power of the sex. But, it can be a turn off if a man just starts setting the pace of sex for the first few times.

Justin also felt that it made more sense from a legal stand point to allow her to take control the first few times. Lol. He is a lawyer.


live with intention. walk to the edge. listen hard. choose with no regret. laugh. do what you love.

posted by Lady Leisure @ 2:58 PM